2nd chance

Do you believe in 2nd chance?I do..I think God is great,He will listen and give us 2nd second chance if we asked for it or sometimes he even give us 2nd chance although we didn't ask for it coz he knows better.

Life is not a bed of roses but there are some people who are born lucky.But then again,life without challenges are boring..I believe the challenges,the downturn,the unfortunate event that happened to us are ways to make us stronger,smarter and a better person.Life is short..so we have to make the best out of the situation.

I had a bitter divorce.My ex hubby cheated on me while I was in confinement after haziq's birth and the thing is this is not the first time.He did it with my housemate b4 we got married(I didn't know this til we're married) and during my 1st child confinement.Caught him red handed when there's an increase tel bil and I noticed there's so many calls on the handfone to my former rented house...(that' odd)

Anyway,for the kids sake, I act civil towards him.Whatever it is he's still the father.Anyway, God give me a 2nd chance, where my current husaband now decided to take care of me.Since I wasted 6 years before I got married to my ex,so I told my hubby now that if u really like me,wanted to take care of me,go and see my parents and ask for my hand.I don't want to waste time having a relationship.I wasn't in love or whatsoever with him.I don't really know him but I took my chances..the kids need a father figure.

Then there's my sis, she had a quarrel with my Dad and She disappear for about 3 years.My dad was shaken really bad, my mom,she cried everyday.We were looking for her everywhere,its like she vanished without trail& non of her friend knew her whereabouts.

When my hubby proposed, I told him that I don't think I can marry him coz then I would not have the flexibility& the freedom to look for my sis and I hv made a vow that during my 2nd wedding all my siblings would be there.

It was sad for me, but God is great,one evening, I decided to give my childhood friend a buzz & told her what happened.She asked me why didn't I tell her earlier.Told her I don't know what to do I was having my own sets of proble raising 2 small child.Anyway, about a couple of days after that, my friend Anor called and gave me an address.She said check this address,this was my sister's last info&she managed to locate that she's still in Kuala Lumpur.It jive with my dream of where she would be...

I managed to tracked her down. My sister was reluctant to open the door.After coaxing and pleading she finally opened the door.Finally, i managed to persuade her to come home.First is to attend my engagement.I was so happy to have all my siblings on my wedding day..

I had advised my other siblings to give her a 2nd chance. My mom was so happy to see my sister,my dad is still angry and frustrated over her but to me..let bygone be bygone.I'm sure she have learnt her lesson..

God have given me a 2nd chance in life,why can't I give the same to her.I'm sure she need moral support to adapt with the family again.

Everybody deserve a 2nd chance......